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In 1989, when these six people were born, they were named Jessica — the most popular name for girls that year. But from there, their lives took different paths. Now, they reflect on life at the brink of 30 — an age heavy with expectation.


Thursday, June 11, 2020 from 8 to 9 p.m. Eastern

Join The Lily for a watch party celebrating the streaming premiere of “The Jessicas Are Turning 30.” The screening will be followed by a Q&A with the subjects of the film moderated by The Lily’s Neema Roshania Patel and Maya Sugarman.

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“The Jessicas are turning 30” weaves together six compelling narratives of people who were born Jessica in 1989. The film captures what it’s like to be 30 in America today. For millennial women, the milestone has become an age heavy with expectation. Thirty-year-old American women today are far less likely to be married and have children than they were 30 years ago – they’re also more likely to have a four-year degree and a full-time job.

Jessica Leiti has overdosed six times but finally feels like she’s turning her life around. Jessica Rosario is a rapper who felt like she and her young mother grew up together. Jessyca Jones sometimes wishes she had the highest dose of valium just so she could sleep through the night.

Growing up, Jessie Read didn’t understand gender rules existed – until he broke them. He felt unsafe. Jessica Amos wishes she were more fit and had travelled the world before she had kids. Jessica Grant wanted to be on Broadway. She’s learned that her aspirations don’t always have to be so calculated.

The Lily is made up of a team of eight millennials. As we each approach this milestone age, we find ourselves discussing what it means to us. This film was born from these explorations as part of an often discussed and diverse generation.

“The Jessicas are turning 30” is produced, directed, edited and scored by women. This is the first film produced by The Lily.

“The Jessicas are turning 30” is a film from The Lily and The Washington Post. The Lily is a publication of The Washington Post that elevates stories critical to women’s lives. We are named after the first U.S. newspaper started by women in 1849. Our mission is two-fold: Empower with news and information and promote inclusivity by exposing diverse voices. The Lily reaches half a million people each month. The Washington Post reaches over 90 million people each month.


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National Television Broadcast | To The Contrary on PBS

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Brooklyn, N.Y. | Reel Sisters of the Diaspora Film Festival

Bend, Ore. | BendFilm Festival


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Amy King, Maya Sugarman and Neema Roshania Patel are producers of "The Jessicas are turning 30," a new short documentary from The Lily and The Washington Post.
Amy King, Maya Sugarman and Neema Roshania Patel are producers of "The Jessicas are turning 30," a new short documentary from The Lily and The Washington Post.

Amy King, Director & Producer

Amy King is editor in chief and creative director of The Lily. Amy proposed and developed the editorial and creative mission of The Lily. She started at The Washington Post in 2013 as an art director for the Arts & Style section and went on to help launch The Post’s national apps and Snapchat Discover channel. She grew up in North Canton, Ohio.

Maya Sugarman, Director & Producer

Maya Sugarman is video editor of The Lily, where she has produced and directed the video series “When Used Correctly,” “Unfiltered” and “Nora Knows What to Say.” Before joining The Washington Post, she was a visual journalist at NPR affiliate KPCC in Los Angeles. Maya graduated from UCLA with a degree in art. She grew up in Oakland, Calif.

Neema Roshania Patel, Producer

Neema Roshania Patel is deputy editor of The Lily. Before joining The Washington Post, she worked at NPR member station WHYY as a community editor. Neema graduated from Rutgers University with a dual-degree in journalism and economics, and grew up in Maplewood, N.J.


Editor & Director of Photography | Maya Sugarman

Creative Director | Amy King

Art Director | Amy Cavenaile

Assistant Editor | Mahlia Posey

Additional Camera | James Tensuan

Video Technician | Justin Scuiletti

Title Illustrator | Jessica Hische

Animator | Chloe Meister

Music | Lera Lynn

Music Engineer | Todd Lombardo

Sound Finishing | Ott House Audio


Follow @thejessicasareturning30 on Instagram for updates on the film and screenings.

What is turning 30 like? Watch ‘The Jessicas are turning 30’

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