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‘People see foreigners living in Japan as temporary fixtures’: An American in Japan lets us into her dating life

‘Every relationship will end in one way or another, so savor the time you have’

‘I’m weary of dating in the church’: A devout Christian lets us into her dating life

‘It begins to seem like you’re only as valuable as you are marriageable’

A breast cancer survivor lets us into her dating life: ‘The moment I mention the C-word, most people shut down’

‘They don’t know what to say. It’s complicated.’

It’s not enough to hope for the best. Millennials are writing contracts for their relationships.

Many do so to ‘optimize’ their romantic partnerships

‘I’ve let go of longing:’ A 65-year-old transgender woman lets us into her dating life

‘Maybe I just don’t know how to date. Maybe I’m pushing that away. But maybe not.’