Democracy Dies in Darkness

I grew up bilingual. But now I struggle to communicate deeply with my parents.

As I’ve gotten older, my Korean language skills have stayed stagnant

Perspective by
Lily contributor
December 12, 2021 at 11:25 a.m. EST
(Dabin Han for The Washington Post)

I was born to Korean parents in America, and language has always been a conscientious choice. As a child, I knew I was going to speak only in Korean to my parents. As I’ve gotten older, my language skills stayed stagnant, and what was once a source of pride is now getting in the way of communicating with my parents.