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How I learned to embrace my Asian curls

I used to wonder why my hair didn’t look like other girls’. Now I welcome my natural texture.

Perspective by
Lily contributor
October 3, 2021 at 9:31 a.m. EDT
(Tenzing Lhamo Dorjee for The Washington Post)

My hair has gone through many stages. I’ve had crunchy, bleached blond ends. I’ve grown it past my waist. In high school, I chopped it off. And I’ve made multiple, sad attempts at bangs (I never learned my lesson on those).

I wanted so desperately to make my Asian hair different that I never took the time to see all the possibilities of what it could be naturally. This comic is a slice of that journey — one that I’m still working through today.